*jus some random thots

actu it took me qt some time to truly understand dat i shld nt take tings for granted. sure enuf pple hae been tellin us dat for like a thousand and one time bt when has d message reallie get thru to us?

for me frens reallie make up a very impt part of my life. my sis has alwaies told me dat haein a few gd frens beats haein alot of hi bye frens. dat i agree totally. i'm very glad n lucky in a sense to hae made so many true frens up to dis pt in life. god has been mre den fair to me.

however dere is jus dis much god can do for u, by allowin u d chance to meet n find these special pple. wad goes on frm dere reallie dpds on u urself. i'm filled wif regret to sae dat i haent been treasurin dis special grp of pple. like renhao felyna simin frm rosyth, kaini lins rah frm st nicks...

i used to be jus an acceptor in alot of frenships, simply stayin on d receivin end. in recent yrs i hae tried to take on a mre pro active role in all my frenships. i realised dat it doesnt reallie matter if i'm fequently on d gifin end. i'm doin so cos i treasure the frenship n it matters alot to me. i wanna keep all of u dear frens by my side. if i need to be d one who alwaies suggest outings in order for us to keep in contact, so be it. i reallie dun mind.

every frenship is like a tree in one's own garden. in order for it to grow n blossom, d gardener needs to shower it wif love care n concern. one cant jus expect the tree to survive on its own rite. in d same way we need to maintain every frenship if we wish it to develop into a long lastin one. whether u wan our frenship to wither or bloom it all depends on wad u wanna do bout it, whether u care bout it at all.

frens can enjoy happie times together. bt can mine survive e tough times too? in times of trouble, hw many will actu stand by me to lend a helpin hand n pull me thru?